Review of In It Together

[Vivian Writes]

[Following is a volunteer review of "In It Together" by Eckhart Aurelius Hughes.]

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5 out of 5 stars

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This is a re-review.

Nobody talks about the struggle that comes with accepting oneself. Self-love, inner peace, and self-value seem to be lacking in recent times. We have a lot of people smiling but dying inside. In this book, readers will find the motivation they need to smile genuinely. Readers will also find the courage to abandon some archaic views and ask themselves meaningful questions that might help with building self-awareness and appreciation.

The book In It Together (2nd Edition Hardcover from B&N) by Eckhart Aurelius Hughes is a stimulating read that encourages readers to consider everything they value in life. The author urged readers to adopt new perspectives of themselves and other people. In addition to the author's philosophical tales, we also find quotes and other wisdom from a wide range of thinkers. In this book, the central theme is love and how, if we let it, it could lift us all. According to the author, history cannot be changed. So why not just accept the past as it is? Hughes often repeats the phrase "it is what it is" throughout the book. The author also believes that we have artificial and original selves. Pick up the book to get his description of what an artificial self and an authentic self mean.

With intriguing, unique, and thought-provoking teachings, there was a lot to glean from this book, and I found nothing to dislike about it. At first read, it was easy to find the book quite abstract to read, but something kept pushing me till I grasped the book's concept. From there, it was smooth sailing. The author's writing style has a way of connecting readers to his thoughts. He wasn't telling readers the “dos and don'ts” that he believed would work for them; instead, he gave readers advice and reasons why we should consider the advice, and I believe that's what true leadership is about (not forcing your thoughts on others). I think the author has done an excellent job of delivering an insightful and relatable book.

One of the reasons I enjoyed reading In It Together is that it reflects my worldview and offers excellent advice on developing a tranquil outlook on life. The “examination of self” the author proposes is comprehensive. The subtle gesture with deep meaning encourages you to search honestly within yourself while softly leading you to discover your truth. This book was supportive and energizing while maintaining a helpful and non-preachy tone. A general message of optimism is at the heart of it. The author's viewpoint about the inner self was revelatory.

I enjoyed reading this book, and I don't regret the time I spent reading it. Additionally, I found no errors and can categorically state that In It Together received exceptional editing. As a result, I will give the book 5 out of 5 stars. I recommend it to everyone who finds it difficult to accept their true selves and those who want to find inner peace.

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[itz maya]

I haven't read *In It Together* by Eckhart Aurelius Hughes, but this review makes it sound like a deeply engaging and insightful read. The focus on self-love, inner peace, and self-awareness is very timely and important. The author's approach of offering advice and wisdom without being preachy, combined with philosophical tales and quotes, seems to create a supportive and thought-provoking atmosphere. The idea of exploring one's authentic self and the repeated message of acceptance resonates strongly. It sounds like a book that can truly help readers find genuine happiness and inner peace. I'll definitely consider picking up a copy.

[Jake Shaun]

"In It Together" by Eckhart Aurelius Hughes is an empowering and thought-provoking book that explores the importance of self-acceptance, love, and inner peace. Encouraging readers to embrace new perspectives and foster genuine happiness, Hughes presents a transformative guide to abandoning outdated views and embracing meaningful self-reflection.

[Emmanuel Chiahulamiro]

The review of In It Together by Eckhart Aurelius Hughes highlights it as a deeply engaging read focused on self-love, inner peace, and self-awareness. The author’s non-preachy advice, combined with philosophical tales and quotes, creates a supportive and thought-provoking atmosphere. The emphasis on exploring one's authentic self and acceptance resonates strongly. It sounds like a valuable book for those seeking genuine happiness and inner peace, making it a compelling choice for my reading list.

[Uzoma Ezeme]

Accepting oneself is a struggle seldom discussed. The book "In It Together" by Eckhart Aurelius Hughes encourages readers to find motivation, abandon outdated views, and embrace self-awareness and appreciation. The central theme is love, and the author emphasizes accepting the past and distinguishing between artificial and authentic selves.

[Okafor Prosper]

The idea of exploring one's authentic self and the repeated message of acceptance resonates strongly. This is a book that can truly help readers find genuine happiness and inner peace. Nice review.

[Youngreader720-OluwabukunmiWilliamsOso]

The book highlights it as a deeply engaging read focused on self-love, inner peace, and self-awareness. The author’s non-preachy advice, combined with philosophical tales and quotes, creates a supportive and thought-provoking atmosphere. The emphasis on exploring one's authentic self and acceptance resonates strongly.

[Dubem Jecinta]

Your review of In It Together effectively captures the book’s focus on self-acceptance and love. You highlight how Eckhart Aurelius Hughes encourages readers to rethink their views on themselves and others, using philosophical insights and quotes. Your mention of the repeated phrase "it is what it is" and the distinction between artificial and authentic selves adds depth. You appreciate the book's abstract nature and the author's approach of offering advice rather than strict rules, emphasizing the thoughtful and relatable nature of Hughes's message.

[Priscilla Kurah]

I’m intrigued by the concept of "artificial and original selves" that the author discusses in the book. The review hints at a deep exploration of these ideas, which could help readers better understand their true nature and how societal expectations might shape their identity. This exploration of authenticity versus artificiality is something I’m very curious to learn more about.

[Smart Link]

The review's praise for the author's writing style is noteworthy. Hughes’s approach of offering advice without being preachy, and encouraging readers to consider his perspectives rather than imposing them, seems like an effective way to connect with readers. This method of communication reflects true leadership, as the reviewer pointed out, and makes the book more appealing to those who appreciate guidance without pressure.

[Scott]

The author also believes that we have artificial and original selves. Pick up the book to get his description of what an artificial self and an authentic self mean.

Hi, @@Vivian Writes,

To the best of my memory, I don't recall using the phrase "artificial self" or "authentic self" in the book at all.

Can you elaborate on what you mean above, including specific examples and quotes from the book?



Thank you,
Scott
a.k.a. Eckhart Aurelius Hughes

[Vivian Writes]

Hi Scott,

The book mentions that us humans have a more superficial side to us that tries/wants to run away from suffering and that we all differ in religion and thoughts (which I thought of as an artificial self). Then the book mentioned that we all still struggle for something and would be able to relate to some of the truths in the book; you also mentioned the existence of our unconscious innate self that results in empathy and sympathy (page 27) (all of which which I thought of as a more authentic self).

For instance in page 21, you said “ Generally speaking, whether we give into it or not, we can all relate to that natural knee-jerk urge to avoid the discomfort of simple honest sympathy for a suffering human.”

The words “artificial” and “authentic” were my interpretation and not words you expressly used. Thank you for asking for clarity.