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Re: Make a choice: Your career or Love?

Post by Darshit009 » 01 Dec 2017, 07:28

Hello,

I think the person should choose love. Coz the carrier option is always open and it depends on his/her capability.

But if he lost the love then it never come back again.

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Post by Dolor » 02 Dec 2017, 01:29

Darshit009 wrote:
01 Dec 2017, 07:28
Hello,

I think the person should choose love. Coz the carrier option is always open and it depends on his/her capability.

But if he lost the love then it never come back again.
If choosing 1 from the options, you choose love and get your own family hungry? 😐

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Post by Goaldiggergirl » 02 Dec 2017, 17:36

Actually if we're going to base in reality now a days. Most of us will choose career over love. Because in this world if you don't have stable job love is meaningless if you don't have money to buy food or etc. So it's better to choose career first.

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Post by Ria mems » 03 Dec 2017, 06:24

I would choose my career because if it's true love then it can wait.

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Post by Cynthia_0628 » 03 Dec 2017, 13:46

I would choose my career only because love is not always true you have to believe it will come back around make sure you put yourself first no matter what because no one has you the way you got yourself and you have to make sure your straight and doing what you got to do for you and if your lover don’t understand that then that gives you what you need to know.

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Post by Johnoscar » 04 Dec 2017, 02:24

Career,because i know love is just a feeling but career is achieving your goals and more greater joy

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Post by inaramid » 15 Dec 2017, 03:16

I will decide in the moment, I guess. I've never encountered this situation before, and although it will be easy to imagine myself in a hypothetical scenario, I think it will still be different once it really happens to me.

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Post by Sakilunamermaid » 24 Mar 2018, 21:18

It looks like when people hold back or give up their career that they feel lots of resentment that makes them fall out of love. I think the possibility of starting a new career is easier than losing someone you truly care about. I'd have more regret regarding the relationship than I would with the career. You can start over at anytime but I'd rather have a support system with the person I love, trying to find a new job.

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Post by DesireeRose » 03 Apr 2018, 20:03

Love! Absolutely love...but I am somewhat of a romantic. Still. Definitely love, because love gets you through the emotionally difficult times. A good career is nice, but it is not as important to me.

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Post by jvez » 23 Apr 2018, 08:02

I've never experienced this before. But if this were to happen to me now, I'd go for career. I am still in a position where I still have a lot of things I want to achieve, and I don't think I'll be fully happen, even with the one I love, if I'd stop trying to achieve my goals.

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Post by Elzaavdolli1 » 24 Apr 2018, 12:52

My heart says my love and my mind says my career, I in this moment I think that my career is most important

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Post by klion3111 » 04 May 2018, 04:23

At this moment i may go with career,since love may be found anywhere ,anytime as long as you have a successful career.

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Post by sanjus » 15 May 2018, 05:53

one cannot make blind choice between career and love. There is always something to loose when a person come across at such a juncture by choosing any one.
life is only knowing the unknown, we can do this by reading books easily

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Post by MAU01 » 15 May 2018, 06:23

The question is choises between career or love?
But for me I choose both love and career why? It is because you know how to manage your time and self between love and career. (BALANCE) In life if you have a career you earn money and buy anything what you want like gadget, foods shoes, etc. Also you can save money for the future. But if you have also a Love you are also determined to work, always smile, blooming inspired etc. In general love and career can is one of the best partner in life because you DETERMINED, HAPPY, INSPIRED. ETC. BUT DONT FORGET TO BALANCE IT. :D :wink:

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Post by Elzaavdolli1 » 15 May 2018, 15:10

everyone must find the balance between love and career, they are both important

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