If you're a man, which one is the best, "a woman with a beautiful heart or a beautiful woman?" Why?

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If you're a man, which one is the best, "a woman with a beautiful heart or a beautiful woman?" Why?

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If you're a man, which one is the best, "a woman with a beautiful heart or a beautiful woman?" Why?

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If a man is looking for cheap thrills then obviously the beautiful woman - a weekend of passion and then it's a done deal and over.

If a man is looking for someone to love and keep in his life then he better look for the beautiful heart because external beauty gets stale fairly quickly.

You forgot intelligent. The most fulfilling relationships I've had in my life were with women I could talk to on an intelligent level. If they happened to be pretty then that was just a bonus.

Unfortunately for me I have known women who were intelligent, good hearted, and physically beautiful - all in one package - but for one reason or another they were unavailable to me. Such is life. The most beautiful women I have had relationships with were spoiled brats and a pain in the ass because they knew they could always find another guy so they always demanded I change to suit their whims - and I did change - girlfriends that is. The ones with the best hearts were usually into religion and/or kids and I was not. The most intelligent wouldn't marry me ... that's how I knew they were intelligent.

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In my opinion, the one with good heart is better.People with good hearts do beautiful things; they can also be considerate.Beauty is just skin deep,it can fade like a flash in a pan. Not many beauty are enduring.
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DATo wrote: 08 Apr 2018, 10:34 If a man is looking for cheap thrills then obviously the beautiful woman - a weekend of passion and then it's a done deal and over.

If a man is looking for someone to love and keep in his life then he better look for the beautiful heart because external beauty gets stale fairly quickly.

You forgot intelligent. The most fulfilling relationships I've had in my life were with women I could talk to on an intelligent level. If they happened to be pretty then that was just a bonus.

Unfortunately for me I have known women who were intelligent, good hearted, and physically beautiful - all in one package - but for one reason or another they were unavailable to me. Such is life. The most beautiful women I have had relationships with were spoiled brats and a pain in the ass because they knew they could always find another guy so they always demanded I change to suit their whims - and I did change - girlfriends that is. The ones with the best hearts were usually into religion and/or kids and I was not. The most intelligent wouldn't marry me ... that's how I knew they were intelligent.

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Jay green wrote: 08 Apr 2018, 11:19 In my opinion, the one with good heart is better.People with good hearts do beautiful things; they can also be considerate.Beauty is just skin deep,it can fade like a flash in a pan. Not many beauty are enduring.
Thank you very much Jay green. Your comment calms my doubtful thoughts.
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A combination of both
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Beauty doesn't last long, so what's the point?
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I want the beautiful heart because it covers a multitude of things and it will outlast outward beauty. In many case's when gravity takes over a beautiful heart is just getting started. Just never forget it is a heart that is just as weak as is strong so don't take it for granted or miss treat it. Remember, it beats as one with your own...
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NRoach wrote: 09 May 2018, 04:55 Beauty doesn't last long, so what's the point?
I think the point is to become a part of it to nurture it and care for it thus making it last and giving it a deeper depth of meaning. A house is only a home when its filled with love and just like that house needs work now and then so do the beauty of that love. Also like that house you need to start with good stock. Without good stock, when, what's the point!!!
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Arronhardy wrote: 14 May 2018, 03:46 I want the beautiful heart because it covers a multitude of things and it will outlast outward beauty. In many case's when gravity takes over a beautiful heart is just getting started. Just never forget it is a heart that is just as weak as is strong so don't take it for granted or miss treat it. Remember, it beats as one with your own...
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Arronhardy wrote: 14 May 2018, 04:01
NRoach wrote: 09 May 2018, 04:55 Beauty doesn't last long, so what's the point?
I think the point is to become a part of it to nurture it and care for it thus making it last and giving it a deeper depth of meaning. A house is only a home when its filled with love and just like that house needs work now and then so do the beauty of that love. Also like that house you need to start with good stock. Without good stock, when, what's the point!!!
Your right! Love is really a must no matter what.
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