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Official Review: Personal Encounters with Cancer

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Official Review: Personal Encounters with Cancer

Post Number:#1 by CataclysmicKnight
» 04 Aug 2017, 10:49

[Following is an official OnlineBookClub.org review of "Personal Encounters with Cancer" by Margaret Phalor Barnhart.]

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4 out of 4 stars
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Cancer is a truly terrifying disease, and one of the worst things about it is how different it is for every person. Some cancers require a lifetime of chemo, others come back every few years and some are even "curable". Cancer changes the lives of not only those diagnosed with it but also everyone around them. Inspired by a friend who relayed her experiences with cancer through email, Margaret Phalor Barnhart decided to chronicle the stories of six people with different cancer diagnoses with her book Personal Encounters with Cancer: Lung, Bladder, Metastases, Prostate, Tongue, Breast.

Personal Encounters with Cancer (as I'll refer to it in this review) covers six different people using a mix of first and third person accounts. The first four stories focus on Crystal (lung cancer), Jack (bladder cancer), Linda (breast cancer with recurrence of invasive ductal carcinoma and metastases) and Ken (prostate cancer). Like those affected by cancer, these stories are about more than just their cancer, they also discuss their own personal lives and how they lived their lives with the terrifying disease. Crystal, for example, starts her story off with a friend getting arrested at the border for forgetting he had a rifle in the back of his pickup. Linda ended up losing her breasts to cancer and dealt with deciding between different prosthetics, reconstitution and merely letting it be and finding the confidence to do so.

The last two stories are over half of the book and tell the stories of Miriam (tongue cancer) and Margaret (breast cancer). Miriam is the friend who inspired Margaret to compile this book in the first place, and her story is told via a collection of emails from herself and her two children. Miriam's story is especially touching because not only was she shocked at the diagnosis of cancer (like everyone else), her husband started going through the effects of Alzheimer's shortly after. Her children balanced helping Miriam with her treatments and taking care of her with finding a place for his Alzheimer's treatment at the same time. Miriam deals with her life changing drastically and a husband who often forgets she's even sick at all. Margaret's (breast cancer) story is the final one, and it's no coincidence that she and the author share the same name. This is the story of Margaret Phalor Barnhart herself, and she introduces poetry and snippets from her other works alongside her diagnosis and treatment.

What makes Personal Encounters with Cancer stand out is how well it lives up to its name. Sure it's all about encounters with cancer, but it's also very personal. Linda goes into detail with the differences between different boob prosthetics and the notion that she's tricking people by wearing any at all, but then she feels less confident without them. Ken mentions the use of Viagra after his diagnosis and treatment of prostate cancer. These and many more of the day-to-day life narratives are things people with cancer genuinely deal with but I've never read about them anywhere else. I felt honored to read such personal things, and it was brave and awesome of them to open up so other folks who have cancer can see they're not alone. A few of the stories also dealt with faith - how it's easy to lose sight of it during such tough times and how a steady confidence in God helps get through even the toughest decisions. One of the toughest things to explain about religion is why bad things happen to good people, and it was great to see how people dealt with their own faith during these tough times.

In the Amazon description of the book, Margaret writes that the book is for cancer patients and their friends and family, along with health care workers, pastors and social workers. With all of the personal details in the book, I wholeheartedly agree that anyone who has cancer, who knows someone with cancer or who interacts with people who have cancer should read the book. I would add, however, that anyone who enjoys a good, short autobiography/biography (this book is just under 150 pages and includes 6 stories!) will enjoy the book as well. My official rating is 4 out of 4 stars.

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Re: Official Review: Personal Encounters with Cancer

Post Number:#2 by kandscreeley
» 06 Aug 2017, 07:14

This sounds great. Cancer is rampant in our world right now, and this would be a perfect book for those going through it. I'm sure it has something for everyone, though. Thanks for the review.
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Post Number:#3 by Naval Aulakh
» 07 Aug 2017, 11:40

The review is very good. I would like to appreciate the author for writing such an amazing book. Thanks for the review.
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Post Number:#4 by jemgirl202
» 07 Aug 2017, 13:07

Great review! Cancer is truly awful. It is beautiful to see people open up about it and tell their stories. It shows such strength!
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Post Number:#5 by LeeleeByoma
» 25 Aug 2017, 12:53

Wow! Truly, very brave of them. Sounds like a book I would love to read for sure because I have a couple of loved ones who are cancer survivors: prostate and breast.
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Post Number:#6 by KlareAllison
» 30 Aug 2017, 15:13

Writing a book about personal encounters with cancer survivors is like re-living the devastitating experiences of being a relation or friend to any one who has been diagnosed and gone through cancer treatments. This can be quite a draining experience. I commend the author for putting together the experiences of Crystal, Jack, Linda, Ken, Miriam and Margaret to help encourage humanity.
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Post Number:#7 by Papercup
» 31 Aug 2017, 05:06

This book is closer to hearts of the people who got a fight within them. A pleasant read!
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Post Number:#8 by strike-aster
» 31 Aug 2017, 07:37

Thanks for the great review. I would love to read the whole book. This really can capture the hearts of many people. I also love reading real life experiences and teaches us more to understand people and their battles with cancer. These brave souls really touched my heart. I really appreciated all the details that were provided and l learned a lot from it.
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Post Number:#9 by geoffrey ngoima
» 31 Aug 2017, 15:01

I would also like to appreciate the author for writing such an amazing book. Cancer is truly a tragedy and this book brings out a new side to it...

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Post Number:#10 by stoppoppingtheP
» 01 Sep 2017, 13:27

Sounds like a touching book that will help many understand the difficulties of such an illness.

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Post Number:#11 by morde
» 02 Sep 2017, 01:30

Personal admits by the affected ones is a sign of bravery and all is not lost. If through faith in God confidence is gained then its a heads-start for the victims. I would love to read this book.
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Post Number:#12 by marykentin
» 02 Sep 2017, 03:49

An inspiring book to read, nowadays cancer has been one of the major health problems that needs a serious medication. Hence, writing about this topic gives the reader the inspiration especially those who are presently experiencing it or fighting against it not to give up and be braver enough to surpass the painful experience.
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Post Number:#13 by Yaone
» 03 Sep 2017, 00:49

I am terrified of cancer.
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Post Number:#14 by Jayrusha
» 06 Sep 2017, 04:59

Cancer is a deadly force. Talking about it is a good way to help people understand and relate. This is a good review. Thanks for the great review. This is a must read
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Post Number:#15 by KrauzeR
» 06 Sep 2017, 05:39

Its really Motivational For people who are going through such circumstances and helps them to think positive. I really Loved,Thank You!
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