Do words actually carry a big impact?

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Re: Do words actually carry a big impact?

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Words certainly carry a big impact, especially to a sick or wounded patient in an anxious state of mind. Saying the wrong thing is sure to impact the patient negatively. I believe the best course of action is to keep the patient as calm as possible and hold off on giving them further bad news till they are in a better position to handle it.
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It depends a lot on the situation. In cases where the patient may opt for different types of treatment or where a problem allows multiple choices, telling the truth seems the best way. This should be the approach regardless of the gravity of the situation. In extreme cases where there is little hope, the doctor has to have common sense and caution. I have had contact with a multitude of doctors who behaved horribly.
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I'm in my final year of medical college. To some extent, what the author says resonates with what we are taught. There are times when the condition of the patient is revealed to him, e.g. when the patient is educated and reasonable enough to grasp the reality.
Although, the time, words and attention given in conveying this can totally alter the patients experience.
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Be it as it may irrespective of the fact that you would love to disclose the truth about the patient's health, I think your words should be chosen wisely when it comes to the life of a patient, as it may either affect them mentally or physically. Rather, I suggest you choose a simple means of letting them know their challenges.
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I agree. The words when you are managing a patient can have a negative and positive impact on that patient. Also, I do not think that it is even ethical to keep the patient not knowing important and necessary information on their health. They need to know, they need to be told - all this should be done professionally.
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Nonny2208 wrote: 02 Oct 2021, 22:35 Words have a very big impact on a patient. You can't just walk up to a patient and tell him/her that he/she is going to die no matter what happens. Even at a 90% probability for death, people still survive and it largely depends on the determination of the patient. You have to keep that determination and drive alive if not the battle is lost even before it begins.

I agree wholeheartedly with what you said. There exist a probability that the professional opinion may be true in most cases but not in all. So even when a situation may seem dire. It may in fact not be so. It is important to have a positive and reassuring attitude.
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Words have a powerful impact, especially on those suffering from serious illnesses. Their mentality and mind were very pessimistic, and they were gradually losing hope. However, I believe that telling the truth is a great option. Telling the truth will help them accept the reality of the situation. It may be excruciating, but medical personnel must take care of them and explain certain events to them with caution and an optimistic demeanor.
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I think what the author meant is that we should be more compassionate when dealing with patients. Yes, they would be told the truth at one point, however, it is important we study the patient and understand what each person's level is before we decide on how to go about it. It is best to reassure them so that they would not panic even when breaking news to them.
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