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[Following is an official OnlineBookClub.org review of "Letters From Home: I Loved Ya Before I Even Met Ya" by Barry K Free.]
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4 out of 4 stars
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I recently had the privilege of reading a novel by Barry K. Free, Letters From Home: I Loved Ya Before I Even Met Ya. This novel is a true story about Barry's emotional experience with losing his wife Cheryl. It is written in the form of letters that he wrote to his grown children during the first several years after his wife passed away. He shared random thoughts with them of what life was like without their mother around, as well as many tales of how she had inspired him and others throughout her lifetime.

Barry divided his book into six parts which each covered a different stage of time in his life after Cheryl's death. He actually published an earlier version of the book which did not have the sixth part. After his first version gained some attention, he published a sixth part that contained some of his musings on events that had happened after he released the first book.

I have to highly commend Barry on his style of writing. Maybe it was because the letters were originally intended for his children, and this made the thoughts seem more real, but he has a way of describing his feelings that really catches the reader's attention. He was able to create the perfect blend of poignancy, inspiration, and even bits of humor at times. I found myself switching between laughing and crying several times because of how the intertwining of grief and amusement in life was so well portrayed. Because of his openness in his writing, it was easier to see into his soul. He was very expressive, and it felt like a close friend directly talking to you.

Near the beginning of the book, in his earlier letters, Barry mentioned the different stages of grief. I feel like he strongly experienced each of those stages as he continued to write these letters of his thoughts. At times, they may just seem like ramblings, but over the course of his reflections, I could detect that he was truly encountering the stages of grief.

As far as editing, the book was very well written. There were only a few grammar mistakes. I saw a word that should be capitalized, and occasionally there was a misplaced comma. Overall, though, everything was well-written, organized, and edited.

I give this book 4 out of 4 stars. I know many readers will be touched by reading it. I hope many will decide to check out this very moving account of Mr. Free's experience with loss.

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I was deeply touched by the authenticity and the transparency of the book. Your review encouraged me to add this one to my reading list. Thanks for the honest and charming review. :tiphat:
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I admire the author's love for his wife. It may have been 6 years yet she still lives in his heart. Love as strong as this is very difficult to find yet very much admirable. Thank you for your descriptive review!
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This seems like such a sweet legacy the author wrote for his children. I admire his devotion to his wife and family. Great review!
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Post by kandscreeley »

Wow! This sounds like it would be awfully sweet and yet heartbreaking at the same time. I love my husband dearly and can't imagine my life without him. It would be interesting to see the author go through the stages of grief. Thanks for introducing this one to us. I'm just not sure I can handle this one right now, but I will keep it in mind for the future.
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Post by EvaDar »

What a beautiful way to chronicle the stages of grief - through the letters. I think I would enjoy the range of emotion you describe in your review. It sounds like a great book all the way around. Thanks for the great review.
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