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[Following is an official review of "Reflections of an Anxious African American Dad" by Eric L. Heard.]
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4 out of 4 stars
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Childhood experiences, even seemingly minor ones, can shape much of how we act, speak, and think, as well as our views on ourselves and the world. This is how dysfunctional patterns persist throughout generations: children raised under bad circumstances grow up to become parents who, often unwillingly, repeat the same mistakes with their sons and daughters. Eric L. Heard is well aware of the dangers of these "generational curses," having grown up as a black child experiencing the aftermaths of Jim Crow laws and witnessing the effects of the crack epidemic on his community.

Heard wrote Reflections of an Anxious African American Dad as an open, honest account of his life so that his son can understand him better and become familiar with the challenges facing African American families. An important incident that motivated the author to write his autobiography happened when he overreacted to a teacher's report about his son and had an irrational fit of anger that made the boy cry. Reflecting on his behavior, he decided to examine his childhood and make sure his lessons came from a place of love and understanding rather than fear-driven overzealousness. Heard also hoped to help fathers in similar circumstances.

The book shines in its portrayal of systemic issues through the eyes of a child caught up in centuries of racism while living in an era of unprecedented change. It shows how, for instance, marginalized people don't suddenly stand as equals to the rest of society after changes in legislation. Segregation was still the norm in the community Heard grew up in, and many doors remained closed to African Americans. Moreover, parents lacked the knowledge, resources, and structure to raise children that could overcome their status.

Heard writes in a frank, personal tone, exploring how his views, values, coping mechanisms, and other philosophical and psychological factors developed over time. I particularly enjoyed the author's appreciation of the mundane and his use of events as simple as dealing with roaches and observing bugs around the streetlight to convey interesting points.

While the writing is generally solid, some sentences struck me as a bit awkward and stilted. For example: "For the next three years, those visits were fun because there was a high expectation initially" (p. 67). This sort of indirect, impersonal language might be fine for academic texts, but it breaks the immersion when you want to tell personal stories and connect to the reader. It's only a minor flaw, however, since it rarely detracts from the reading experience.

Reflections of an Anxious African American Dad is a great book for parents and educators, as well as readers interested in childhood stories and discussions of race. I only found two errors, so the book is well-edited overall. Thus, I rate it 4 out of 4 stars. Though the book touches on broad social phenomena, it focuses on their impact on families and individuals, so readers should look elsewhere if they want a more thorough analysis.

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I like the fact that the author writes this book to facilitate a better connection between his son and him. This type of book is necessary for this generation to give a wider and concise view on parenting.
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My heart goes out to the African American community and all the challenges they face. This book seems to contain realistic perspectives of how society is still dealing with racism. Parents stand to benefit from this book and that is what makes it all the more interesting.
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