Anyone feel sorry for Alex?

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Anyone feel sorry for Alex?

Post by Kathryn Price » 08 May 2018, 17:40

I'm not saying that I personally pity him, but one could make the argument that Alex deserves some sympathy. He definitely loves his children, and if he could have gotten enough help with his alcoholism he might not have destroyed his relationships so thoroughly. I was willing Natty to save him when he fell into the river because I always tend to try to give people second chances, but I also understand why she couldn't respond in time and why it didn't grieve her very much after his death.

What do you think? Was Alex a total monster or did he deserve some pity?
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Post by TashaCrispin » 15 May 2018, 04:07

I felt a lot of empathy for Alex and I can confidently say he is not a total monster. People can get lost but with second chances, they could do better. If Natty saved him that day, maybe he could have changed his ways but I would also not judge her response. It was a messed up situation...

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Post by Nena_Morena » 20 May 2018, 18:16

The alcohol brought the worst out of him, but even when he was sober he wasn't a very good man. We read he tried to hit on Irma despite the fact that she was married, he liked starting fights, he never took good care of the farm and he was totalitarian in the way he wanted people to do what he said. I met some alcoholic men but never any that beat a child like he did. Despite this, I don't think he deserved to die and I wish he could have accepted help for his alcoholism.

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Post by Sefiros2211 » 22 May 2018, 14:21

Not for one second. He chose the bottle. It's a part of him. That's what happens when you crave escape: the bottle changes you. It becomes a part of you. Every decision you make now has the alcohol incorporated into it.

Let's be clear. Addictions can be overcome. But you really, really need to want it. If Alex truly wanted to, he could have changed his act. But the fact that he relies on booze for tragedies makes him a deadweight - to him, and the family around him. He's no use to anyone at that state. Choice, people. It's all about choice.

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Post by liftedbooks » 23 May 2018, 07:25

He was a slave to alcohol- in that sense I feel sorry for him. However, like Sefiros2211 said, it's all about choice.

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Post by Fuzzy456 » 23 May 2018, 07:41

In some way he can be pitied but on the other hand, life is full of choices and we all have the ability to make the proper choices for a better life.

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