Is it true women try to please their men?

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Re: Is it true women try to please their men?

Post by V_bansal2912 » 08 Sep 2017, 00:06

I disagree with Nadia. In a relationship both the partners are equal. If that is not the case then the relation is destined to doom.
An equal and respectful relation is the only healthy relation.

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Post by BookWorm1810 » 17 Sep 2017, 14:35

I think both sides of the relationship should try to please each other, because the relationship will never work if it's only the woman who is making a huge attempt at pleasing the man. I also think that this should be done out of love and a wanting for the relationship to work

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Post by Oliver Ekaso » 25 Sep 2017, 08:55

While she may not express it orally, women do try their best to please their men. Actually both should try to please each other for a sustainable relationship.
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Post by eelavahs-jay » 29 Sep 2017, 15:15

I think a relationship should be equally benefiting for the parties involved. Who tries to please the other most in a relationship is dependent on the individual. Some women try hard to keep their partners happy because they don't want to be left for another. Men do it too. Majority of the time when there is an imbalance its because of someone's insecurities or dependency, be it emotional, financial etc

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Post by ktom » 22 Feb 2018, 13:16

I think when you care about someone, whether it is romantic or plutonic, you always aim to please. In terms of women trying to please their men, I believe both parties should participate in trying to please the other, but not to the extent that they lose sight of who they are.
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Post by biscuits » 03 Jun 2018, 05:49

Most women are the ones working tirelessly to please their men. Why not the two sides doing this together for the betterment of their relationship. So, yes, I do agree with you.

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Post by 10mile72 » 12 Jun 2018, 12:52

I don't know who does more trying to please, but in most relationships I think women do more work.

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Post by Jgideon » 17 Jun 2018, 06:23

I totally disagree with her. Both parties in a relationship should always try to please each other. Otherwise, one can get really tired and fed up.

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Post by Dusamae » 18 Jun 2018, 10:28

I think both women and men try to please the other. I don't think it is one-sided. It may feel that way but in reality what we do to please may not be what the other was looking for.

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Post by Kister Bless » 23 Jul 2018, 14:34

Yes I agree. It should be so and vise versa too.

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