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I truly support Nadia.. You can still be happy somewhere else.
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This is a hard situation to compare. If abuse comes into play, a parent should always remove their child from that situation. However, an unfilling relationship is different. It can sometimes be worth staying for the sake of the children, assuming that the children don't have a miserable time (such as the parents always fighting or never talking).
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i think ,it is right for Nadia to quit this relationship with her husband immediately.With the reason that ,her life can not continue to be threaten with emotional pains and happy moments.
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From a lot I have seen, I don't think it does the kids any favor by staying in an abusive relationship. They sense things and that unhappiness builds up in them causing them more harm than good. I won't stay in an abusive relationship because I cannot pass that message to my kids that it's alright to endure abuse.
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It is difficult to say as there is always more than what meets the eye. I believe one's happiness comes first and then we should think of others. That is because if we aren't happy, we won't be certainly making others happy either.
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I agree with Nadia. If you are not happy in a relationship walk away. It's unfair to be with someone for the sake of someone or something. For example like yaser who is only in a relationship for the sake of the children. Moreover, that's how cheating in a relationship comes about. Because of lack of happiness and comfortability with your partner.
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Honestly, living in a household with parents that are unhappy with one another is worse than living with parents that are split up. If the parents are constantly arguing and fussing at each other, then the kids will be very unhappy. No one likes living in a toxic house! On the other hand, I believe marriage is sacred and you should never just give up on it! At least try to work things out, but if there is a situation of abuse or adultery then it is different. No one should have to go through what Nadia went through and no one should have to deal with an unfaithful lover. I honestly think it is a case by case thing. If the only thing that happens is you get bored of the person or you stop loving them then I don't think it is okay to give up on the marriage then. If there is abuse or adultery then I would leave as soon as possible. It really all depends on the situation. Some people just don't belong together and others are just to cruel to be with someone. I would never want to be with someone that abused me or cheated on me.
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I support Yaser for his decision to remain in unfulfilled marriage. But I disagree with him in one point that, he remained in unfulfilling marriage for the sake his children. I expected him to argue that, he remain in his relationship for the sake of meager love which exist in order to improve it. On the other hand, I am totally against Nadia who run away from abusive relationship. Frankly speaking, there is no perfect marriage in this would, if it exists then between them, one must be mentally retarded.
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I'd have to stand by Nadia's side; if a relationship doesnt work for you, be it thats its unfulfilling or detrimental to your health you need to leave it if it cant change.
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I think relationships are all about having an understanding that is mutual. When that is achieved then many conflicts can be curbed. A relationship can seem akward to others but only you know your secret to making it work. Personalities however play an integral part in determining this.
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Both. In life we ought to make certain sacrifices.However, say no to abuse and violence.
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An abusive relationship is like cancer that spreads out of control. It not only affects the children's moral and social upbringing but it also ensures the victim couple cannot engage in a meaningful future relationship.
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Relationship is all about love and understanding
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Relationship is a two way process. Both parties must understand each other. When the other goes high temper, the other must neutralize it.
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I stand with Nadia. Although, I am a product of a broken home and suffered psychologically as a result of being labelled so as a child, but nothing can justify choosing to stay in an abusive relationship, not even kids. There are many incidents of individuals who lost their lives under various circumstances because they decided to stay on because of their kids. Now, the implication is that those individuals lost the opportunities to nurture/relate with their kids which would have been possible if they had left those abusive relationships and stayed alive.
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