How do you establish a good relationship?

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Re: How do you establish a good relationship?

Post by Chowmy123 » 05 Jun 2017, 04:05

To maintain a relationship communication is th best eliment also important one, many relationship devastated because of no conversations, Within the families nowadays digital technology create less communication, less communication creates problems in relationships, while we create international relationships through internet, we have to create good relationship with family members & near friends! Trust & hope also basic eliments to a good relationship.

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Post by KasieMiehlke » 14 Jun 2017, 16:28

I believe that trust is one of the most important factors in a relationship as well as respect. If those are not present, I don't think a relationship can last.

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Post by Preciosonic » 14 Jun 2017, 16:40

Be a listener to your partner, be honest,don't stay a day without hearing from your partner,tell or show your partner how much you love him/her,love him/her for who he/she is,be patient.

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Post by stalliongirlke » 27 Jun 2017, 07:57

by being honest. I would hate to be in a relationship where I have to keep a record of what I say or do so that I don't get caught. Being honest takes that kind of weight off my shoulder

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Post by DTA Changer » 27 Jun 2017, 08:26

trust in tha relationship en committment

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Post by MURIIRA » 27 Jun 2017, 09:35

Trust and Honesty. You give me honsty I give you trust and vice versa. They go hand in hand.
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Post by Kelebogile Mbangi » 27 Jun 2017, 09:51

yvonne judy wrote:Personally my relationship with people is always about trust,understanding and always being able to listen someone.
Through all this,have always got the best people around.
Very true. I find people are endeared to those who listen to them wholeheartedly as they speak, just listening and learning to validate the feelings of others even when you disagree is important.
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Post by Papercut » 06 Jul 2017, 23:32

Trust comes after knowing them fully; that includes the good, the bad and the ugly. I don't make good relationship 'cause I know it comes around naturally to the right people.

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Post by Amcdanel86 » 21 Jul 2017, 22:26

Communication is the key to any good relationship.

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Post by Kyle789 » 22 Jul 2017, 00:11

What I do is, I always look for the good in people and trust them. Even when doubts float in my mind I push them aside and trust the other person.
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Post by Ljessup » 22 Jul 2017, 21:48

I would have to agree with you and say that trust is vital. I think that being completely open with one another and putting forth the same effort is important as well. Listening skills are needed and not being quick to assume anything over any situation. There is so much more that it takes to have a good relationship, but the most important to me would have to be openness and honesty!
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Post by Ama Idim » 25 Jul 2017, 20:12

For a good relationship, trust is very important and not being judgemental. One should be free to tell the other how they feel at any point when they are angry over what the other has done being careful not to be rude. Always having each other's back
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Post by Onyinyechukwu » 27 Jul 2017, 05:21

It has to be based on trust, and usually the fertilizer on which trust thrives is unconditional love. So, if you want to establish a good relationship, a great relationship, you must be willing to love someone unconditionally, usually this will be reciprocated, but hey, remember Rome wasn't built in a day. Usually it starts with attraction, and then there might be no more reason why but 'because'(see to it you are not crazy? once you've got that settled you are ready to begin). So you can either go out there and love unconditionally or wait till you find someone who is trustworthy, which ever suits you?.
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Post by May-an Tinangag » 28 Jul 2017, 07:07

You must be kind. You must learn how to listen and understand. Listen to them without any negative judgment. Trust is also important it allows us to navigate the uncertain and complex world we live in today and love is built on trust. Trusting someone means that you think they are reliable and you have confidence in them and you feel safe with them physically and emotionally.

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Post by Bettychi55 » 06 Sep 2017, 09:25

I think honesty, trust and support are needed to establish a good relationship. They say a true friend is the one who tells you your mouth is smelling. We all need a little help every now and then.
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