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Review by cpru68 -- If life stinks get your head outta y...

Posted: 17 Jun 2018, 17:16
by cpru68
[Following is a volunteer review of "If life stinks get your head outta your buts" by Mark L. Wdowiak.]
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4 out of 4 stars
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Do you have a friend who just won't give up on you? No matter how many mistakes you make, this person stands firmly by your side encouraging you to get up and keep going despite your shortcomings. In his self-help book, If Life Stinks, Get Your Head Outta Your But's, Mark Wdowiak offers his advice as a steadfast acquaintance with no strings attached.

Right from the opening pages, Mark does not hold back on his tough love approach by making it crystal clear that the reader is responsible for his or her own life. He writes with a brutal honesty that if we don't like where we are in life, then it is the result of our own poor thinking and decision making. He gives numerous examples from his own experiences where he was trying to place the blame on others for his failures, while in reality, he was sitting at the main control switch creating undesirable circumstances for himself.

One of the best examples of this was when he was pressured into attending an event he really had no interest in. While his mouth said yes, internally he wanted to decline due to the expense and the time away that this trip would entail. When he finally worked up enough courage to cast off the peer pressure, he found that the event planners didn't even flinch over his decision not to go.

This example and many more are included in this well-written guide on how to have the life you desire. It frees the individual from self-defeating behavior and calls for a new mindset and perspective. He inspires his audience to go from a victim mentality to take back their personal power. Written in an easy to understand style, with short chapters, this book has the potential to help many out of the pit where they find themselves stuck and wallowing. To further drive the point home of making a commitment to oneself, the author has the reader write his or her initials at the end of each chapter. This signifies that there is a contract being drafted to start on a new journey with yourself blazing a more rewarding trail.

I have read many of Norman Vincent Peale's publications, and this book ranks right up there in its similar style of presentation. I thoroughly enjoy books such as this that promote the power of positive thinking and remind all of us to be grateful for what we have. There are not long arduous steps associated with what the author is instructing his readers to do in order to make good changes for themselves. In a rather simplistic way, he effectively corrects through sharing interesting facts, life landmines to avoid, and his own personal faults to instruct those who have ears to hear. This book would be best suited for those who enjoy an enlightening self-help book with some deep points and a few laughs thrown in along the way.

I am giving this book a 4 out of 4 stars as it seems to have been professionally edited offering no errors and the quality of the writing is excellent.

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Posted: 18 Jun 2018, 04:42
by Helen_Combe
Great review. It sounds like a really useful book. I know a few people who could do with some internal examination. When they say ’everybody in the office is wrong about this’, they could rationalise whether it’s more likely that 20 people are wrong or just one person is wrong.

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Posted: 18 Jun 2018, 04:48
by JR Mercier
"He writes with a brutal honesty that if we don't like where we are in life, then it is the result of our own poor thinking and decision making."

I love this approach. It makes me think of a gruff and loving father that doesn't sugarcoat the truth and that honestly just wants the best for you. Great review!

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Posted: 18 Jun 2018, 08:59
by Nimat87
I think this book is great for self evaluation, especially when we need that strong push to take the most important steps in our lives. Definitely one I'd love to read. Thanks for the detailed review.

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Posted: 27 Jun 2018, 03:47
by Onat
nice review, it is good when you have a great friend that always push you to do great things, I.e when you have a friend that just won't give up on you? No matter how many mistakes you make, this person stands firmly by our side and encouraging us to get up. the book makes sense a lot .

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Posted: 01 Feb 2019, 23:32
by jlan
It is well said. As it is always said that the journey of a thousand miles began with one. Indeed is when you wake up every morning sit in your bed and began to make those decision that will make impact on your life. I love the book. Thank you for such an inspiring book.

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Posted: 15 Feb 2019, 02:19
by Cheshire_wolf
cpru68 wrote: 17 Jun 2018, 17:16 [Following is a volunteer review of "If life stinks get your head outta your buts" by Mark L. Wdowiak.]
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4 out of 4 stars
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Do you have a friend who just won't give up on you? No matter how many mistakes you make, this person stands firmly by your side encouraging you to get up and keep going despite your shortcomings. In his self-help book, If Life Stinks, Get Your Head Outta Your But's, Mark Wdowiak offers his advice as a steadfast acquaintance with no strings attached.

Right from the opening pages, Mark does not hold back on his tough love approach by making it crystal clear that the reader is responsible for his or her own life. He writes with a brutal honesty that if we don't like where we are in life, then it is the result of our own poor thinking and decision making. He gives numerous examples from his own experiences where he was trying to place the blame on others for his failures, while in reality, he was sitting at the main control switch creating undesirable circumstances for himself.

One of the best examples of this was when he was pressured into attending an event he really had no interest in. While his mouth said yes, internally he wanted to decline due to the expense and the time away that this trip would entail. When he finally worked up enough courage to cast off the peer pressure, he found that the event planners didn't even flinch over his decision not to go.

This example and many more are included in this well-written guide on how to have the life you desire. It frees the individual from self-defeating behavior and calls for a new mindset and perspective. He inspires his audience to go from a victim mentality to take back their personal power. Written in an easy to understand style, with short chapters, this book has the potential to help many out of the pit where they find themselves stuck and wallowing. To further drive the point home of making a commitment to oneself, the author has the reader write his or her initials at the end of each chapter. This signifies that there is a contract being drafted to start on a new journey with yourself blazing a more rewarding trail.

I have read many of Norman Vincent Peale's publications, and this book ranks right up there in its similar style of presentation. I thoroughly enjoy books such as this that promote the power of positive thinking and remind all of us to be grateful for what we have. There are not long arduous steps associated with what the author is instructing his readers to do in order to make good changes for themselves. In a rather simplistic way, he effectively corrects through sharing interesting facts, life landmines to avoid, and his own personal faults to instruct those who have ears to hear. This book would be best suited for those who enjoy an enlightening self-help book with some deep points and a few laughs thrown in along the way.

I am giving this book a 4 out of 4 stars as it seems to have been professionally edited offering no errors and the quality of the writing is excellent.

******
If life stinks get your head outta your buts
View: on Bookshelves | on Amazon

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This entire review is eye opening. I was actually looking for a good self help book, for myself and the husband. The title though was what caught my eye, and I gotta say if this guy is just as funny with his title, and has a straight up approach to things as you say, then I'm looking forward to a good read.

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Posted: 15 Feb 2019, 02:45
by Nerea
I like the questions you've used to introduce your review for the reason that they prepare the mind of the readers on what to expect about the book. Your review is insightful too. Thank you.

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Posted: 15 Feb 2019, 08:14
by 32Kslater
Mark really tell you like it is!!! The majority of your problems is your own causing ,avoiding ,or facing the situation before the issues occur.
Sometimes you may have people stand in your corner when the trouble get too deep. Mark L. Wdowaik really proves it's hope in any outstanding ordeals I definitely give him 4 star for understanding the misunderstood.

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Posted: 04 Jun 2022, 00:45
by Arthur Bukosia
Your review is great it stirs up the desire for one to read that book. By the review alone, one can conclude that the book itself is a life skills handbook. This is the kind of book those of us stuck in our comfort zones that stinks must read. Thank you for this great review it has sent me straight into the pages of the book. Thumbs up!