Could you date someone who doesn't read?

[abfraw310]

I married a man who does not like to read. In fact, he loathes it. But, he has bought me several books throughout the years and he has read many of my blogs and short stories simply because they’re mine. I find that pretty charming and sweet. Besides, it’s too late to turn back time. We’ve been happily married for 13 years and together for 15 so loving someone who doesn’t love reading hasn’t been so bad.

[Dartemis]

I'm fine with dating someone who doesn't like to read. They could have an interest I'm not particularly fond of, but I'll be fine with it if they were fine with mine. As long as we both respect each other's hobbies and not make fun of them, who cares what the other likes to do in their free time.

[big_mama_archie]

Of course...if they respect my time and need for reading. Different is cool

[AJ_Williams011]

Quite frankly, I don't really care if they read books or not. Because in the end, I know that I could be persuasive enough to convince them to pick up a book and read.

[77way]

May be could at the first time date with him, but at the next date I will give him positive impact of reading books, then what's the benefits you will take it? When he confused, doubt faced a problem, I think he must take a book to help give solution for him, ha ha ha

[Bertha Jackson]

Yes, because reading is only one part of my life. I have many friends who are readers, and I discuss books with them.

[kimoy13]

I can date someone who doesn’t read because reading is very personal to me.

As a matter of fact, it is the one time that I am completely alone. I actually get annoyed if someone texts or calls me while I am reading.

I have friends who read and I discuss my new book finds with them. This is quite satisfying.

As such, although it would be nice if my partner shared my love of reading, it’s not a deal- breaker for me if he doesn’ t read.

[Laura Mich]

I'm enticed by intelligence. Books are a great source of knowledge. I'm not sure I'd even fall in love with someone who doesn't read.

[Laura Mich]

I can date someone who doesn’t read because reading is very personal to me.

As a matter of fact, it is the one time that I am completely alone. I actually get annoyed if someone texts or calls me while I am reading.

I have friends who read and I discuss my new book finds with them. This is quite satisfying.

As such, although it would be nice if my partner shared my love of reading, it’s not a deal- breaker for me if he doesn’ t read.

How about someone who isn't interested in listening to stories concerning books?

[Laura Mich]

I married a man who does not like to read. In fact, he loathes it. But, he has bought me several books throughout the years and he has read many of my blogs and short stories simply because they’re mine. I find that pretty charming and sweet. Besides, it’s too late to turn back time. We’ve been happily married for 13 years and together for 15 so loving someone who doesn’t love reading hasn’t been so bad.

Thinking of it in this perspective changes my negative opinion totally.

[emidio125]

Yes, as long as she respected the reader that exists in me.

[paigelambo10]

Yes. My significant other does not read. Reading is one of my things and he has his things. He actually still shows interest in the things I read and will ask me about them. My dad also loves to read, but my mom does not. I could see how someone would want to be with someone who also enjoys books, but it has never caused a problem in any of my relationships.

[AbhyarnaAman]

Well, there are some who read a book and there are others who write the book without reading it ever. I don't mind if my partner is not much of a reader, I am glad that he is a continuous learner. we still have so much to discuss.

[AbhyarnaAman]

Yes. My significant other does not read. Reading is one of my things and he has his things. He actually still shows interest in the things I read and will ask me about them. My dad also loves to read, but my mom does not. I could see how someone would want to be with someone who also enjoys books, but it has never caused a problem in any of my relationships.

you have nicely put your thoughts, I also have a similar situation and understand another viewpoint as well

[Gladys Chris mburu]

Yes of course i would date a person who does not read,why not?
We book nerds sometimes tend too ignore and snob people who don't read not knowing that each individual is different with likes and dislikes, just find something that you both enjoy doing together as a hobby as the qualities and character of an individual is paramount than just books.
However reading is the best thing to ever exist so if i find a reader its a plus to the relationship.