Could you date someone who doesn't read?

[josephinemmarsh]

mm i think i could but they'd have to understand that i enjoy reading and that i read in my spare time. there are more things that can be discussed than just books. this is kind of hypocritical though because most of the people i choose to associate with read books and are able to hold better conversations than "how was your day?" and "did you see such-and-such tv show last night".. intellectual conversations are much better than mindless dribble.

I totally agree! I think I just need to have an intellectual connection with someone to make sure it works. It doesn't necessarily need to be from reading but at least being able to have deeper conversations.

[Robert Obikanyi]

I wouldn't. We'd be incompatible in almost everyway because chances are she wouldn't be an introvert nor a bibliophile. Chances are she'd be the "club girl".

[Zaynnie]

I can date someone who doesn't enjoy reading as much as I do. There are many things we can both enjoy doing that doesn't involve reading

[Penny Ann Criswell Johnson]

I am married so I can’t relate to dating. But, my husband hates to read and I feel he gets annoyed when I talk about my books and stories.

[Christabel Egbeama]

I don't have a problem with dating someone that doesn't read. I believe reading is something that comes off naturally. I've loved reading since I was little, which became one of my interests. My partner may have other interests that isn't reading, and I may not like them. But if we share similar interests which isn't reading, then it's fine too.

[Rica Singh]

I'm married to someone who doesn't read. The mere thought of a book makes him want to sleep! Lol! But he enjoys listening to me when I recount to him the story of the books I read. Does that count as him reading? lol.

[Gabija Ticho]

I believe I could, but that person must be at least watching educational videos!

[Asadun]

That's tough question, I can't imagine not liking to read. It really depends on the person. Most people already think I am weird for loving to read novels. But as I said earlier it depends on the person as long as she does not hamper me from reading and encourages my children I could probably date her.

[Stephen Ogunwale]

I don’t think I can ever do that and that’s on par, as much as we all might have our limitations, not knowing how to read and not wanting to learn how to, shouldn’t be allowed in this present age. Not wanting to read even when you can is sth I can’t condone. Like they say, different strokes for different folks.

[Shenila Ginabay]

Well, I could and I did. My ex didn't like to read at all. But my husband loves reading and I can say, it's really great being with someone who likes it because you have so much to share.

[Sseatvet1]

This is a great question:) Yes, I can date someone who doesn't read. I am glad my partner appreciates my love for books and I read at night while he works. I would not be able to have a partner who had any issues with me reading in the morning and evening.

[James330]

Definitely, it's fine if she's fine

[NorwegianBookGirl]

I definitely think I could date someone who doesn't read, as long as they are still reflecting human beings. One of the things I love the most about books is the discussions and thoughts around them. If I can get this from a partner, without it regarding a book, then that is completely fine by me. With interesting discussions and an interest in important subjects, I am willing to let the lack of reading slide. Of course, I am still very intrigued by readers, and would love to date one. However, it is no deal breaker

[Kami Dever]

No I love to read they have to love to read also.

[Paul Kabugi]

An interesting question. As someone who reads, I tend to have a book with me during most of my free time. Dating someone who doesn't read would be a pity cause who am I supposed to rant to when my favourite character does something stupid that's obviously going to get them killed? And who am I supposed to argue with about whose favourite book is better? In short, I don't mind being in a relationship with someone who doesn't read, merely, I feel it'd be much more interesting being with someone of my kind.