4 out of 4 stars
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Broken Places: A Memoir of Abuse is a book of essays, poems and prose by Rachel Thompson. The book centers on the author’s experience of childhood sexual abuse. There is a trigger warning at the beginning of the book. Discretion is advised.
The book tells the true story of an eleven-year-old girl who was molested by her neighbor. He was a middle-aged military father who abused several children and threatened to hurt her family if she told anyone. Forty years later, that young, scared girl is a fifty-year-old mother of two who is still strongly affected by her dark past. She talks about her dealings with PTSD, depression, carrying the burden of shame, and so much more. Her abuser may be dead, but his presence in her life lingers in the form of nightmares, flashbacks, and feelings that won’t just go away.
The book is fittingly split into three sections: Mind, Body, and Soul. The essays and poems work well together. The essays help to provide context for the emotions conveyed in the poems, which are mostly about love, healing, and pain. In general, she introduces a piece of her story and provides more details and insights about it as the book progresses. It’s a short and quick read filled with powerful messages as she examines the notion of moving on from a very realistic point of view. The essays are often just as poetic as the poems, with lines like: “The bad thing takes your brain hostage, fills it with the detritus of denial, becomes dead leaves waiting for the deep scratch of the rake.” Of course, the poems are just as moving: “He’s not here anymore …Can a ghost of air and dust hold me now?” The metaphors are well utilized. Her words throughout the book strongly resonate.
There are many great aspects of this book that I could list. One thing that I found to be really outstanding is that she forgave her parents, even though they didn’t handle the news of her abuse in the most effective manner. They pretty much swept it under the rug, believing that she was fine and didn’t need help. I also really appreciated that the author places emphasis on being a survivor. The book isn’t about her asking for pity or simply complaining. It’s about what happened to her, the problems that stemmed from it, how she’s managed to push through, and how she’s still affected by it. While she certainly voices her frustrations, like being told to forgive her abuser, these frustrations are all very relatable and necessary to talk about. The book is deeply personal, and the author discusses her emotions in a very rational, honest, and compelling way.
I rate this book 4 out of 4 stars. It was very inspiring and splendidly written. I would recommend it foremost to survivors of sexual abuse as well as families and friends who want to further their understanding of what their loved one has gone through and is still going through.
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